Friday Sizzle - Zumanity, The X Group Munch, Ministry of Burlesque's High Tease!

Let's open up our book of naughty little entertainment ideas and see what we can sample the upcoming week.

On March 1st go to a show that will not only leave you breathless – but spellbound. The New York New York Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas presents: Zumanity by Cirque du Soleil (www.zumanity.com). For $69, $99 and $129 per person, you can witness the adult-themed, 90-minute production, being billed as "Another side of Cirque du Soleil," as it is a provocative, cabaret-style production. See website for showtimes.

Join The X Group Munch (www.smodyssey.com) at The Back Room - 48B Race St, San Jose, CA from 8 – 10 pm on March 4. This venue gives adults 19-35 an opportunity to join an open topic moderated discussion forum, allowing people to explore issues relating to young people, SM/Leather/Fetish, and the community. This group aims to support people with the perils, pitfalls, and rewards of being involved in the SM/Leather/Fetish community. They are a pansexual group, open to everyone, regardless of role, gender or sexual preference.

Be a part of the fun at the Ministry of Burlesque's High Tease (www.ministryofburlesque.com) at Clapham's on 697 Wandsworth Road. Starting at 8pm on March 6th, for only £10, enjoy a feel good evening of vibrant cabaret, shimmering tassels and racy wit, High Teas promises to amuse, entertain and arouse! The venue, Clapham's Lost Society, is a cross between Oscar Wilde's living room and a tart's boudoir. It captures all the ambiance and exoticism of the Orient, 1930s art deco and kitsch - a suitably decadent setting for such a glamorous night out. Entry is only £10 and guests should dress to impress! To book tickets, call: 0207 652 6526.

Have a blast putting the sizzle into your week no matter what kind of entertainment you find yourself enjoying!

Have an erotic event, movie, live theater, restaurant/resort or party you'd like mentioned? Then send it to: [email protected].

Between The Sheets - Boyfriend On XTube With Ex!

Q: I found a video my boyfriend made with his ex up on XTube for viewing. He did things with her that he hasn’t done with me. What’s up with that?

A: What’s up with him keeping the video and then trying to make money off of it? Doesn’t that bug you at all? I would certainly bring it up the next time I saw him.

If you want him to do things with you that he did with his ex, then tell him. Maybe he hasn’t figured out that you are as adventurous as his ex. Women always complain that no two women are alike (so true) and no two women like sex the same way (yepper pepper).

So since he’s not a mind reader – enlighten the poor boy. And then check to make sure he’s not recording the two of you for a future pay check!

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].

Q: I found a video my boyfriend made with his ex up on XTube for viewing. He did things with her that he hasn’t done with me. What’s up with that?

A: What’s up with him keeping the video and then trying to make money off of it? Doesn’t that bug you at all? I would certainly bring it up the next time I saw him.

If you want him to do things with you that he did with his ex, then tell him. Maybe he hasn’t figured out that you are as adventurous as his ex. Women always complain that no two women are alike (so true) and no two women like sex the same way (yepper pepper).

So since he’s not a mind reader – enlighten the poor boy. And then check to make sure he’s not recording the two of you for a future pay check!

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].

Between The Sheets - What's A MILF & BDSM?

Q: What does BDSM and MILF stand for?

A: Did you come across your man's web search history? Some things are better left unknown - but you've asked and I aim to answer!

BDSM - Normally has to do with a sexual behavior between consensual adults. The sub-divisions are:

Bondage & discipline (B&D)

Domination & submission (D&S)

Sadism and masochism (or sadomasochism) (S&M)

Now that said -- BDSM may or may not include actual sexual relations or sexual role-playing.

MILF - No one knows exactly where this term came from, but many give the "American Pie" movies credit. It stands for, "Moms I'd like to fuck", "Moms I'd love to fuck", "Mothers I'd love to fuck" or "Mothers I'd like to fuck". I've been asked on several occasions if I'd be an MILF online with a web cam. All I can do is laugh:)

Now all they need for you is a FILF (Fathers I'd like to fuck)!

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].

Q: What does BDSM and MILF stand for?

A: Did you come across your man's web search history? Some things are better left unknown - but you've asked and I aim to answer!

BDSM - Normally has to do with a sexual behavior between consensual adults. The sub-divisions are:

Bondage & discipline (B&D)

Domination & submission (D&S)

Sadism and masochism (or sadomasochism) (S&M)

Now that said -- BDSM may or may not include actual sexual relations or sexual role-playing.

MILF - No one knows exactly where this term came from, but many give the "American Pie" movies credit. It stands for, "Moms I'd like to fuck", "Moms I'd love to fuck", "Mothers I'd love to fuck" or "Mothers I'd like to fuck". I've been asked on several occasions if I'd be an MILF online with a web cam. All I can do is laugh:)

Now all they need for you is a FILF (Fathers I'd like to fuck)!

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].

Between The Sheets - Anal Sex With My Cone!

Q: I came home sooner than expected and caught my husband with his ass on my Cone vibe! Here he was with one hand jerking off, the other hand holding him steady on the bed and his ass hopping up and down on the vibe. I backed out before he saw me, went to the bar and grabbed myself a drink. This was the same man who was as straight-laced with me in bed as could be. No experimenting, no toys, no nothing. Hell, I didn't even know he knew about my toy stash. So what do I do? Bring it up that I saw him or let it slide? Is he gay?

A: Okay, most important -- did you sanitize that vibe or pitch it? I hope you didn't pitch it, after all it's a great vibe! But if you still have it, you're really going to want to use some bacterial solution on that baby.

Is he gay? Well if the fact that he likes anal stimulation is your only clue to go on - I doubt it. Many straight men, and women, love anal stimulation. For a man, he can have his prostrate stimulate by having a finger, dildo or a vibe inserted. And seeing that I've used the Cone vibe myself, I can see why he was enjoying himself.

Did you ever think that he was embarrassed by sex toys and the kinkier things that can get him off? Although he is a man and many men are a bit more - experiential - than women, he still might have been raised to believe that sex toys and anything other than the missionary position in bed was a direct line to Satan's party room.

Don't tell him that you saw him getting off or that you know he was in your sex toy collection. Instead, the next time you two have sex, bring out a toy without asking him permission first, and use it on him. Of course if he has a complete cow, stop using the toy. But I think that with you bringing it into the picture without seeking his permission first, it gives him more of a sense that this was all "your idea" and being the good husband he is - he went along with it. This, in his mind, can save him from the gates of hell. After all, he was just being a good hubby to his wife.

So what you thought to be a complete disaster will probably ramp up your sex life and save your marriage in the long run. Pretty cool huh?

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].

Q: I came home sooner than expected and caught my husband with his ass on my Cone vibe! Here he was with one hand jerking off, the other hand holding him steady on the bed and his ass hopping up and down on the vibe. I backed out before he saw me, went to the bar and grabbed myself a drink. This was the same man who was as straight-laced with me in bed as could be. No experimenting, no toys, no nothing. Hell, I didn't even know he knew about my toy stash. So what do I do? Bring it up that I saw him or let it slide? Is he gay?

A: Okay, most important -- did you sanitize that vibe or pitch it? I hope you didn't pitch it, after all it's a great vibe! But if you still have it, you're really going to want to use some bacterial solution on that baby.

Is he gay? Well if the fact that he likes anal stimulation is your only clue to go on - I doubt it. Many straight men, and women, love anal stimulation. For a man, he can have his prostrate stimulate by having a finger, dildo or a vibe inserted. And seeing that I've used the Cone vibe myself, I can see why he was enjoying himself.

Did you ever think that he was embarrassed by sex toys and the kinkier things that can get him off? Although he is a man and many men are a bit more - experiential - than women, he still might have been raised to believe that sex toys and anything other than the missionary position in bed was a direct line to Satan's party room.

Don't tell him that you saw him getting off or that you know he was in your sex toy collection. Instead, the next time you two have sex, bring out a toy without asking him permission first, and use it on him. Of course if he has a complete cow, stop using the toy. But I think that with you bringing it into the picture without seeking his permission first, it gives him more of a sense that this was all "your idea" and being the good husband he is - he went along with it. This, in his mind, can save him from the gates of hell. After all, he was just being a good hubby to his wife.

So what you thought to be a complete disaster will probably ramp up your sex life and save your marriage in the long run. Pretty cool huh?

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].

The O Factor - Ride The Orgasm Wave!

I love waves! Me, the beach, some nice sea salt air and I'm in heaven. But with this new toy, there's no need to go to the beach for some wave action. Oh no -- you can have your very own wave action in your bedroom, in your car or even in your bathtub! For you see, there's no need to actually be a surfer with Ann Summers new rippled vibe called The Rampant Rabbit Wave! When I was approached to try out this spankin` new product, I couldn't wait to have it arrive at my doorstep. Ann Summers' Pleasure Scientists at her Laboratory of Lust went above and beyond their call of duty when they ramped up and improved upon their Rampant Rabbit!

My first thought when I took it out of its packaging was, "Damn it's big!" And let me tell ya, with a girth of 5" (13.5cm) and a length of 6" (15.5cm) it felt like it would be an incredible fit! The feel of the toy itself was nice and soft to the touch. The controls for this bad boy could be found at the base. There were three levels of intensity for the clit's nuzzling bunny ears and three levels to the rippled wave - PLUS - you could reverse the wave at the touch of a button. I sat there for a bit and got a feel for the controls. Once I was comfortable with what was what -- it was time to ride the wave!

With a kick ass Sean Bean fantasy in place, I rubbed on some Liquid Silk to the shaft and its enticing ripples. I must admit, upon insertion I gasped. Wow, I haven't had something that filling since I had an actual cock inside many moons ago. This vibe was a perfect fit! I pushed it in as far as I could and flipped on the lowest bunny fun. Lord it felt great! My clit was doing the happy dance. I ramped it up to the second level and then the third. This bunny could bust a move. However, I found that level three was just too much for my clit to be happy about for a long period of time, so I brought it back down to level two.

But now it was time for me to turn on the waves. Level one - I smiled. Level two - I gasped. Level three - With the noise that came out of my mouth, I had to double check that I really was by myself. Normally only another human could get that kind of response out of me. I honestly didn't think I had felt anything so damn good. That was until I decided to reverse the waves. All I had to say was - Holy shit, stick a vibe in me -- I'm done! And that's all it took to have the most intense orgasm I ever had via a sex toy.

Drawbacks -- that this vibe isn't actually connect to a human! I could've really handled holding onto some flesh as the waves crashed over me time and time again! This baby takes 4 AA batteries (not included) and in the heat of it all you can forget what button controls what and which way was up or down. But the pleasure derived from The Rampant Rabbit Wave FAR outweighed the minimal drawbacks. I can only pray that the Ann Summers rep gets a hold of me again to test the next toy!

Your own The Rampant Rabbit Wave will run you around £49 depending where you buy it online, such as from Ann Summers (http://www.annsummers.com/wave/). This rippled vibe will stay very close to my body! But we still have to ask ourselves the question...

What about the "O" Factor?

"O" Factor Rating: O O O O O

This is a "must have" for the gals on my friends list!

Have a great week and remember if you can't find your sexual groove, no one else will be able to find it

If you have a sex toy, naughty novelty or sensual oil that you'd like reviewed here at the "O" Factor, drop us a note at: [email protected].

I love waves! Me, the beach, some nice sea salt air and I'm in heaven. But with this new toy, there's no need to go to the beach for some wave action. Oh no -- you can have your very own wave action in your bedroom, in your car or even in your bathtub! For you see, there's no need to actually be a surfer with Ann Summers new rippled vibe called The Rampant Rabbit Wave! When I was approached to try out this spankin` new product, I couldn't wait to have it arrive at my doorstep. Ann Summers' Pleasure Scientists at her Laboratory of Lust went above and beyond their call of duty when they ramped up and improved upon their Rampant Rabbit!

My first thought when I took it out of its packaging was, "Damn it's big!" And let me tell ya, with a girth of 5" (13.5cm) and a length of 6" (15.5cm) it felt like it would be an incredible fit! The feel of the toy itself was nice and soft to the touch. The controls for this bad boy could be found at the base. There were three levels of intensity for the clit's nuzzling bunny ears and three levels to the rippled wave - PLUS - you could reverse the wave at the touch of a button. I sat there for a bit and got a feel for the controls. Once I was comfortable with what was what -- it was time to ride the wave!

With a kick ass Sean Bean fantasy in place, I rubbed on some Liquid Silk to the shaft and its enticing ripples. I must admit, upon insertion I gasped. Wow, I haven't had something that filling since I had an actual cock inside many moons ago. This vibe was a perfect fit! I pushed it in as far as I could and flipped on the lowest bunny fun. Lord it felt great! My clit was doing the happy dance. I ramped it up to the second level and then the third. This bunny could bust a move. However, I found that level three was just too much for my clit to be happy about for a long period of time, so I brought it back down to level two.

But now it was time for me to turn on the waves. Level one - I smiled. Level two - I gasped. Level three - With the noise that came out of my mouth, I had to double check that I really was by myself. Normally only another human could get that kind of response out of me. I honestly didn't think I had felt anything so damn good. That was until I decided to reverse the waves. All I had to say was - Holy shit, stick a vibe in me -- I'm done! And that's all it took to have the most intense orgasm I ever had via a sex toy.

Drawbacks -- that this vibe isn't actually connect to a human! I could've really handled holding onto some flesh as the waves crashed over me time and time again! This baby takes 4 AA batteries (not included) and in the heat of it all you can forget what button controls what and which way was up or down. But the pleasure derived from The Rampant Rabbit Wave FAR outweighed the minimal drawbacks. I can only pray that the Ann Summers rep gets a hold of me again to test the next toy!

Your own The Rampant Rabbit Wave will run you around £49 depending where you buy it online, such as from Ann Summers (http://www.annsummers.com/wave/). This rippled vibe will stay very close to my body! But we still have to ask ourselves the question...

What about the "O" Factor?

"O" Factor Rating: O O O O O

This is a "must have" for the gals on my friends list!

Have a great week and remember if you can't find your sexual groove, no one else will be able to find it

If you have a sex toy, naughty novelty or sensual oil that you'd like reviewed here at the "O" Factor, drop us a note at: [email protected].

Between The Sheets - Gay Porn?

Q: My girlfriend likes to watch gay porn, you know with 2 dudes getting off on one another. Could she be gay?

A: You're kidding right? What guy doesn't love to watch lesbian porn? Does that make the guy a lesbian? No. So your woman watching two men get off does not make her gay. It makes her horny!

Enjoy the porn together -- if watching two guys makes you squeamish, then go in the other room and watch two chicks get off. This way you and your girl can be hot and bothered at the same time.

Then after the porn, you two can @uck all night long!

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].

Q: My girlfriend likes to watch gay porn, you know with 2 dudes getting off on one another. Could she be gay?

A: You're kidding right? What guy doesn't love to watch lesbian porn? Does that make the guy a lesbian? No. So your woman watching two men get off does not make her gay. It makes her horny!

Enjoy the porn together -- if watching two guys makes you squeamish, then go in the other room and watch two chicks get off. This way you and your girl can be hot and bothered at the same time.

Then after the porn, you two can @uck all night long!

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].

Between The Sheets - Wax And Wear!

Q: My boyfriend wants me to wax my pussy. Should I?

A: Sure, why not? But tell him that you think it would be a great time for you two to share the experience. You'll make an appointment for the two of you, and he'll go first so he can show you what kind of man he is.

Once he's silky smooth and soft, you'll take the wax plunge. If he chickens out - then you won't have to get it done. It's either double or nothing.

What are the odds that your dude will want the hair ripped out around his balls?

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].

Q: My boyfriend wants me to wax my pussy. Should I?

A: Sure, why not? But tell him that you think it would be a great time for you two to share the experience. You'll make an appointment for the two of you, and he'll go first so he can show you what kind of man he is.

Once he's silky smooth and soft, you'll take the wax plunge. If he chickens out - then you won't have to get it done. It's either double or nothing.

What are the odds that your dude will want the hair ripped out around his balls?

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].

Friday Sizzle - Pleasure Bound Munch, Queer Salon at Coffee, Cake & Kink And CineKink NYC!

Let's open up our book of naughty little entertainment ideas and see what we can sample the upcoming week.

Ever want to attend an BDSM party? Well here's your chance. On February 25th from 8 PM – 1 am head over to Pleasure Bound Munch (www.pleasurebound.org) in Sacramento, California – RSVP for exact location. Pleasure Bound is a Sacramento-based lifestyle group specializing in erotically themed BDSM parties and events with an up-scale atmosphere. Munches are a vanilla event, which gives their patrons a chance to socialize in a friendly setting and gives newcomers a comfortable place to meet and get to know the members of their group. Munches are held at a well-known vanilla establishment (a restaurant) so dress and act accordingly. For details regarding the Munch, go to their site, click on the contact page and send email to PleasureBoundParties.

On February 27th, combine cake, coffee and kink at the Queer Salon at Coffee, Cake & Kink (www.coffeecakeandkink.com) on 61 Endell Street. The first non-restrictive, straight-talking LGBT conversation club in London. Aimed to get people TALKING again and find the art of conversation lost in the scene. Topics discussed: leathersex, polysexuality, relationships, current affairs, culture etc -- ANYTHING you want. The process is much like speed dating, with a maximum of 20 people. Register at 6.30pm. Call David Parker at 020 7388 3109 for info.

Wanna take in a good diversity of sex films? From February 26 – March 2nd, head to CineKink NYCx5 (cinekink.com) in NYC. CineKink is an organization that recognizes and encourages the positive depiction of sexuality and kink in film and television, most visibly through its annual film festival, CineKink NYC. Featuring a specially-selected program of films and videos that celebrate and explore a wide diversity of sexuality, with offerings drawn from both Hollywood and beyond, works presented range from documentary to drama, camp comedy to hot porn and everything in between. In addition to screenings, the annual festival also includes a short film competition, audience choice awards, presentations, parties and a gala kick-off fundraiser, all followed by a national screening tour. Put on your shiny finery and come help us kick off the fifth annual CineKink NYC in proper style!

Have a blast putting the sizzle into your week no matter what kind of entertainment you find yourself enjoying!

Have an erotic event, movie, live theater, restaurant/resort or party you'd like mentioned? Then send it to: [email protected].

Between The Sheets - Getting Over The Ex For Sex!

Q: How can I get over my ex-husband? I want a sex life again.

A: Simple - all you have to do is give yourself permission. I know - sounds easier than it really is. But it can be done and in under 24 hours.

How you ask?

1. If you still have anything from the your ex and/or the marriage - get rid of it: cards, letters, jewelry, pictures, trinkets, plants -- but keep animals and children please. If you cannot simply bear to part with something - then either put it in a storage unit or give it to a trusted friend to hold for you.

2. Write a letter to your ex-husband. Pour out your emotions and your hurt in the letter. Then burn the letter or rip it up and flush it down the toilet as you wave by.

3. Pat yourself on the back.

4. Go do something nice for yourself - a nice haircut, manicure - maybe a new outfit.

5. Love yourself = Masturbate multiple times while you fantasize about someone really hot.

6. Don't look back :)

We all take chances every day; we take a chance when we choose something to eat, or drive in our car, pick a movie, choose an outfit to wear -- everything in our life is a choice and we must live with the consequences of that choice. Your past choice to dwell on your ex, the love you once shared and the pain he has caused is holding you prisoner. That's a consequence that's long overdo for removal.

If you find yourself slipping back into thinking about your ex – switch your thoughts and masturbate over a hot guy!

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].

Between The Sheets - Sex On The Hood!

Q: My husband wants he and I to have sex on the hood of his car in the middle of the woods. What do you think?

A: I'd say what are you waiting for? Having sex on the hood of a car is soooo much fun and men think it's just the best. So why not do this for your guy? After you've waxed the hood, you can suggest a place where you'd like to get all wild and crazy with him. Taking turns suggesting places to have sex is not only fun, but is erotically stimulating to the mind.

Just make sure when your bare butt climbs on the hood that the engine has cooled down. I learned this tid bit the hard way!

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].