Between The Sheets - A Husband's Threesome!

Q: My husband and I were out celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary. After our third or fourth drink, he let it slip that his biggest fantasy is for us to have a threesome with another woman. I laughed it off and said sure. But now I regret agreeing to it. How can I back out of this and turn him mind back to a one-on-one sexual relationship only?

A: As much as I like to drink, over the years I’ve realized when to stop drinking so that I do not answer a question in such a manner that when I was sober I regretted it. What you need to do is be upfront about your realization to your husband. Admit that you had too much to drink and when you sobered up, you regretted your decision.

The worst thing that you can do for your marriage is to go along with his fantasy. I haven’t heard of one marriage or relationship in general, surviving after a third party was brought in. So don’t buck up and play along -- speak up.

To get his mind off of the threesome, create a fantasy of your own. If a man is involved in a fantasy that ultimately leads to sex – he will be a happy man.

Don’t feed his fantasy, instead satisfy his libido!

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].

Q: My husband and I were out celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary. After our third or fourth drink, he let it slip that his biggest fantasy is for us to have a threesome with another woman. I laughed it off and said sure. But now I regret agreeing to it. How can I back out of this and turn him mind back to a one-on-one sexual relationship only?

A: As much as I like to drink, over the years I’ve realized when to stop drinking so that I do not answer a question in such a manner that when I was sober I regretted it. What you need to do is be upfront about your realization to your husband. Admit that you had too much to drink and when you sobered up, you regretted your decision.

The worst thing that you can do for your marriage is to go along with his fantasy. I haven’t heard of one marriage or relationship in general, surviving after a third party was brought in. So don’t buck up and play along -- speak up.

To get his mind off of the threesome, create a fantasy of your own. If a man is involved in a fantasy that ultimately leads to sex – he will be a happy man.

Don’t feed his fantasy, instead satisfy his libido!

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].