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 Q: Can a woman have a wet dream like a man?
A: Thank God yes! Dream sex is a wondrous thing and something I like to engage in nightly. The dream sex can get so intense that I wake up with my panties soaked. It's happen so many times in my life that I've lost track on the amount of times this has happened.
Dream sex is out of body sex and out of body travel is what we do when we dream. Never discount your dreams. They are as real as your physical reality. The nice thing though about a dream is once you realize you are dreaming – you can do anything. Including having as much sex as you want! Dream sex can be an orgasmic bliss that no one should miss out on!
Sweet dreams!
If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].
 Q: My boyfriend loves blow jobs and I love giving them to him. But he wants me to swallow and every time I try I gag. Any advice?
A: Why can't cum taste like chocolate? If it did, swallowing would never be a problem! I'm like you though, so I can sympathize. My body does an automatic “What the @uck are you doing” as soon as cum hits the back of my throat.
So what's a person to do? Thankfully I've found a solution that has made women grateful and men thankful -- Cepacol lozenges and Chloraseptic. Take either one before you take his cock in your mouth and it will really do wonders. If for some reason you still can't handle the feel of the cum traveling down your throat – ask him to wear a condom. It doesn't feel as good for him (or so I am told) but at least he can finish in your mouth.
Remember to push for equal rights by him either 69'ing with you or at least eating you out till you scream.
If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].
 Q: I often masturbate while looking at pictures of my fully clothed male friends. Is this normal?
A: I hate that word – normal. Really – what IS normal? There's no such thing as a “norm” as everyone is different with their own quirks and manner of doing things. That's what makes each of us so unique. So I'm answering your question without taking normal into the equation.
Any guy would think that it's great knowing you get off to an image of him. I mean really – no matter the gender it's a compliment. Though I wouldn't bring it up to any of the guys during conversation because then they'll probably become obsessed with the thought that you fantasize about their naked bods. Before you know it then you and one or more of the guys are in bed together and now your relationship has passed into the “friends with benefits” mode.
Now if you're having sex with one of them and then want to tell him – I say go for it!
If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].
 I've never gotten into phone sex or cyber sex for that matter. I'm usually a hands on type of gal and if I'm wet, hot and panting after someone I'd like them to be right next to me. However, I think I've been swayed to the phone side with a new hot cell phone accessory called Boditalk! By the same fabo company that brought me -- and you -- OhMiBod, comes the perfect toy to make your phone sex cum alive! When your lover calls...your Boditalks!
Okay, so I don't have a lover that could call me on the phone and talk dirty to me. But that's okay! Why? Because I had two phones and I called myself for this test (no silly - I didn't talk to myself, I used my excessive imagination), plus if you found yourself phone sex dateless, this baby can be flipped on without the use of a cell phone. Now how crafty was that?
This beauty was real simple to use. Someone calls your cell, it goes off and then the Boditalk turns on! This pink princess will also kick it into gear if you make a call! Boditalk sequences through three different vibe patterns for the length of the call. I know that if I would have had an actual person on the other end being all sexual and naughty that this vibe would have allowed by body to follow my mind and cum to a successful and satisfied conclusion. But since it was just me-myself and I -- I turned off the cell phone and the automatic cell phone kick on button. I then hit the triangle button which would take me through the seven vibe stages. It was amazing how well it slid in and out and in and -- well, you get the picture. The vibes were easy to change by pushing the triangle button. I think I'm rather attached to vibe #5 as that was the one I latched onto to take my body to "O" heaven. Boy I love my job!
Drawbacks - there were a few. Batteries, God I hate them as they always tend to run out at the wrong time (not in this vibe this time - but overall)! This baby takes 2 AA, not included, so make sure you have some on hand. The pause between the three vibe cycle via cell phone mode takes too long. It would be better if the transition between cycles was either immediate or at least a second or under. That was my biggest beef - the 5 + second pause. Because I'm such a girth hound, maybe a bit more substance to it - or an accessory to give it more girth? Not really a drawback - just a suggestion.
Your own Boditalk will run you around $69.00 depending where you buy it online, such as from OhMiBod (http://www.ohmibod.com/boditalk.html). I need to find someone to call me and talk dirty! But we still have to ask ourselves the question...
What about the "O" Factor?
"O" Factor Rating: O O O O O
Don't send me an email -- call me on my cell damn it!
Have a great week and remember if you can't find your sexual groove, no one else will be able to find it either!
If you have a sex toy, naughty novelty or sensual oil that you'd like reviewed here at the "O" Factor, drop us a note at: [email protected].
 Q: I was out at a bar the other night with my girlfriends and met a guy. We had the most amazing bathroom sex – Diane Lane in Unfaithful – bathroom sex. Now when I'm in bed with my husband, I can't get aroused. How can I have the hots for my husband again?
A: Wow! That kind of sex is stuff that dreams are made from! Hot and wild in a public place. Is my jealously showing? It should be. This makes me want to go to a bar and wear a sign that says “@uck me in the bathroom please”.
But that aside, you've got yourself a problem. You went from exciting, mind blowing sex – to predictable everyday sex. Add to that the guilt you feel for screwing around on your husband and no wonder you can't get aroused.
Two things that you have to do: 1) Pour out your guilt onto a piece of paper – and then burn the paper. Once the guilt is out, you'll be able to move forward. 2) Time to spice up your marital sex life. Watch porn together, try sex toys, do role playing, have sex n a public place (we know you're not too shy for this) – anything out of the norm to spice things up.
When you are with someone for a long time, sex can get very predictable and routine. You owe it to both of you to shake things up a bit. And you never know – you may do your husband in the bathroom as well. But make sure you bring along the wet naps to clean up afterwards!
Arousal with your husband is 100% possible, you just need to retrain your mind.
If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].
 Q: I hate my co-workers guts. But I want to @uck him. What's wrong with me?
A: Ahh..the ole love/hate relationship. To love or hate someone involves passion. That's right – even hating someone involves passion. What does passion do? It fuels desire! So it's actually normal to hate someone but still find them attractive. How do you think so many odd relationships develop in Hollywood and then break up as soon as the movie promotions are done?
My gut tells me that your co-worker feels the same about you. The nice thing about this is that if you two do rub a hole in the office rug, there's no chance that you'll develop an actual romantic relationship. Therefore, neither of you will screw up the working environment for you or your other co-workers.
Hot passion – whether it involves love or hate is too much erotic desire to pass up. I say go for it!
If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].
 Let's open up our book of naughty little entertainment ideas and see what we can sample this weekend.
On the 25th grab your kinkiest gown and head to the Black and Blue Ball 2008 at Club Manor Couples' Night Club (www.couplesnightclub.com) in Bethpage, NY! Everyone attending this party has to dress-up in Leather, Rubber, Fetish, Bondage or IN ALL BLACK Clothing. They will transform Manor to a Dungeon. Whips hand-cuffs, paddles, masks and a couple of Mistresses will be in the club for this party. Please get your outfits ready for this kinky night. If you are a experienced mistress/master and willing to help out please e-mail them at [email protected] or call at (516) 942-3500.
It’s time to talk about porn! On January 26th, get involved in a discussion about porn at Bluestockings, 172 Allen St, Stanton, NYC from 7 – 8 pm EST. While the sexual and moral compass here in the U.S. generally points toward porn is bad', demand and access to pornography has grown to new astronomical heights. Journalist Debbie Nathan takes an objective view on the social issues surrounding it. Thoroughly researched and written in friendly language for a young audience, Nathan's "Pornography" explores how young people take a critical approach toward this medium. Step out for a lively and important discussion, 'cause we ask, we tell, right?
Manchester England is reportedly blessed with one of the best fetish clubs in the world. On January 27th, take part in the Manchester Fetish Party (www.manchesterfetish.com), MUD (Manchester's Unbelievable Dungeon). Unlike other fetish clubs there are no sexual boundaries other than consensual behavior between like-minded adults." The facilities offered are impressive -- adjustable rack, whipping bench, puppy cage, a wet room with showers, a rotating wheel, torture chair, ceiling hoists, coffin, examination couch, swing, grope cage and more. Bring your own alcohol -- soft drinks on sale. The scene is pansexual, and anyone in the fetish scene is encouraged to attend -- gay, straight, bi, curious, TV, and TS's are all welcome. Dungeon monitors enforce the rules of consensual and politeness, so whatever your kink, be sure that you'll be able to act it out in a positive, respectful environment.
Have a blast putting the sizzle into your weekend no matter what kind of entertainment you find yourself enjoying!
Have an erotic event, movie, live theater, restaurant/resort or party you'd like mentioned? Then send it to: [email protected].
Q: My boyfriend's cock is not big enough. When he's in me I can't tell that he's there. Is there a way to tell him this without hurting his feelings?
A: Not a chance in hell is there a way to break it to him that will not hurt his feelings. Men are obsessed with their cocks - the length, the width, the performance and heck - they even name them. So by telling him Little Willy simply falls in and doesn't do his job will cut him to the core.
You didn't tell me whether or not you reach orgasm during the final thrusts of sex, so I'm going to assume that you don't or his small cock wouldn't be such a problem. So, what is a woman to do? Either you or your boyfriend can spend more time stimulating your clit before and during sex. Be bold and have the guy go down on you and eat you for breakfast, lunch and dinner! After he cums, have him get you off with his fingers or one of your favorite toys. Tell him you have to cum again -- this will make him feel even more manly and you'll get off maybe more than once! I'm not a big fan of lying, but this little white lie will spare him his feelings and probably save your relationship. Last, but certainly not least -- have him wear a cock ring. This little diddies are fun and add some zing!
If all of this doesn't work and you just must have your orgasm with a guy's cock pumping away inside of you without any outside help, then it is time to find a new man. Just use some class when you dump him - tell him anything you want but don't tell him his cock is too small. That cuts below the belt.
Sometimes size does matter.
If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets, drop us an email at [email protected].
 Q: The last sexual encounter I had, I gave the guy a blow job and I gaged when he came. It was overly embarrassing and I haven't wanted to give oral sex since. My new boyfriend is wanting a blow job and he has already gone down on me several times. How can I get over my fear and return the favor?
A: Chloraseptic! No really - this baby works wonders for numbing the back of your throat! Just squirt a few shots into the back of your throat before you put his cock in your mouth and you're good to go.
But if that still will not work to over-cum your fear - then you really need to talk to your boyfriend. The guy should be clued in to what is going on. He needs to know that he is not the reason you will not give him a blow job. Not all men are complete pigs, so he could be understanding and let you work on his cock but not cum in your mouth. Would that work? If you wanted to finish him off you can do so with a nice hand job.
The only way to overcome a fear is to confront it. So confront this baby head on and you two will be 69'ing it before you know it!
If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].
 Q: Can women ejaculate?
A: It all depends on who you ask. No really - it does. You have doctors who say it's unusual while other docs say it can happen. Then it depends what female you ask. Some will say that they have been able to, others say that they don't know. For those who do not know if they have had that squirt of pleasure - it is normally because when they had their orgasm, they also had some other bodily functions give way simultaneously (do you know what I mean -- or do I need to be graphic here?) and they contribute with messy sheets to those bodily functions.
If someone were to ask me - and hey, you did - I would say that YES women can ejaculate but sadly few know about this and many do not experience this pleasure because they do not know it exists. It's hard to experience something that you don't believe exists. I thankfully, am very much aware of it and count myself among the privileged few!
If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at [email protected].
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