Between The Sheets - The Girl Says No To Anal Sex

Q: How can I get my girl to like anal sex more? She let me do it to her once, but now it's a no go.

A: Some people just like to keep an out door - out. Know what I mean? But since she at least gave it a go once means she cares for you and if approached correctly, may give it another try.

This is all about what makes her comfortable. The last time, did you use enough lube - like gobs of it? Start with sliding your fingers in first to ease her into it? Or did you use some lube and just shove your cock up her butt? There's a huge difference here. If you did the latter, no wonder she's anally shy.

Talk to her about it. Get a bunch of lube (AKA gobs), place the lube on your fingers and start from there taking your cues from how she responds. Easy in, easy out -- that'll do it. Once she realizes that there is pleasure that can be derived from this sex act, hopefully she'll let you move on to your cock being lubed up and entered. But the key to this is taking it slow and being aware at all times of her comfort level.

If you play your lube right, her out door only can transfer into a revolving door.

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at betweenthesheets@whispersmedia.com.

Q: How can I get my girl to like anal sex more? She let me do it to her once, but now it's a no go.

A: Some people just like to keep an out door - out. Know what I mean? But since she at least gave it a go once means she cares for you and if approached correctly, may give it another try.

This is all about what makes her comfortable. The last time, did you use enough lube - like gobs of it? Start with sliding your fingers in first to ease her into it? Or did you use some lube and just shove your cock up her butt? There's a huge difference here. If you did the latter, no wonder she's anally shy.

Talk to her about it. Get a bunch of lube (AKA gobs), place the lube on your fingers and start from there taking your cues from how she responds. Easy in, easy out -- that'll do it. Once she realizes that there is pleasure that can be derived from this sex act, hopefully she'll let you move on to your cock being lubed up and entered. But the key to this is taking it slow and being aware at all times of her comfort level.

If you play your lube right, her out door only can transfer into a revolving door.

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets - Pillow Talk's sex advice portal - then drop us an email at betweenthesheets@whispersmedia.com.

Comments

[zerohour42]

How can I get my wife sex drive up. It is low that once a month is getting tuff. I try all kind of things and they just don't seem to work. I can flash her, and I would get more responce if I walk down the street newed.