Between The Sheets - January 24, 2008

Q: My boyfriend's cock is not big enough. When he's in me I can't tell that he's there. Is there a way to tell him this without hurting his feelings?

A: Not a chance in hell is there a way to break it to him that will not hurt his feelings. Men are obsessed with their cocks - the length, the width, the performance and heck - they even name them. So by telling him Little Willy simply falls in and doesn't do his job will cut him to the core.

You didn't tell me whether or not you reach orgasm during the final thrusts of sex, so I'm going to assume that you don't or his small cock wouldn't be such a problem. So, what is a woman to do? Either you or your boyfriend can spend more time stimulating your clit before and during sex. Be bold and have the guy go down on you and eat you for breakfast, lunch and dinner! After he cums, have him get you off with his fingers or one of your favorite toys. Tell him you have to cum again -- this will make him feel even more manly and you'll get off maybe more than once! I'm not a big fan of lying, but this little white lie will spare him his feelings and probably save your relationship. Last, but certainly not least -- have him wear a cock ring. This little diddies are fun and add some zing!

If all of this doesn't work and you just must have your orgasm with a guy's cock pumping away inside of you without any outside help, then it is time to find a new man. Just use some class when you dump him - tell him anything you want but don't tell him his cock is too small. That cuts below the belt.

Sometimes size does matter.

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets, drop us an email at betweenthesheets@whispersmedia.com.

Q: My boyfriend's cock is not big enough. When he's in me I can't tell that he's there. Is there a way to tell him this without hurting his feelings?

A: Not a chance in hell is there a way to break it to him that will not hurt his feelings. Men are obsessed with their cocks - the length, the width, the performance and heck - they even name them. So by telling him Little Willy simply falls in and doesn't do his job will cut him to the core.

You didn't tell me whether or not you reach orgasm during the final thrusts of sex, so I'm going to assume that you don't or his small cock wouldn't be such a problem. So, what is a woman to do? Either you or your boyfriend can spend more time stimulating your clit before and during sex. Be bold and have the guy go down on you and eat you for breakfast, lunch and dinner! After he cums, have him get you off with his fingers or one of your favorite toys. Tell him you have to cum again -- this will make him feel even more manly and you'll get off maybe more than once! I'm not a big fan of lying, but this little white lie will spare him his feelings and probably save your relationship. Last, but certainly not least -- have him wear a cock ring. This little diddies are fun and add some zing!

If all of this doesn't work and you just must have your orgasm with a guy's cock pumping away inside of you without any outside help, then it is time to find a new man. Just use some class when you dump him - tell him anything you want but don't tell him his cock is too small. That cuts below the belt.

Sometimes size does matter.

If you too would like a shot at having your question answered in Between The Sheets, drop us an email at betweenthesheets@whispersmedia.com.