Between The Sheets - October 2, 2007

Q: Can you make any homemade sex toys for women? I want to use a toy, but if my partner found them she’d kill me.

A: Sex toys – she’d get pissed if you used sex toys? That sounds like a petty insecure person to me. Sex toys can enhance a sexual relationship, not diminish it.

As far as homemade toys – electric toothbrushes work great as you’re getting a shower! You can also use a pillow, between yourself and the bed (with you lying on your belly), and move your pelvis so that your clit rubs the pillow. Peel a banana, throw a condom over it and use it as a dildo. Last, but not least, lie back on the bed, putting a sheet between your feet, through your legs, over your clit and stopping at about chest level. Pull the sheet as taut as you can. Rock your pelvis back and forth letting the blanket rub against your clit.

When it comes to sex and sex toys – there is always fun to be had no matter if you buy the sex toy or make it yourself!

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